The examples I gave, no matter how ludicrous you find them were just to show that in both the cases the parents are to blame, but no one is actually pointing a finger.

In the McCann's case as I have already mentioned, everyone knows that it was their fault, they also know that it was their fault, yet still there is this relentless McCann bashing and finger pointing.
Yes we know, and they also know that they are guilty of leaving three children on their own, (you don't have to shout) but what is the point of mentioning it in every post other than to run down the McCanns.

Yes I still have a great deal of compassion for the parents, but naturally my main concern is that their daughters well-being, and I pray that she will be found soon.