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Medics mull organ donor options 4 Months ago Karma: 1  
I was pleased to learn that the Royal College of Physicians of Edinburgh is considering whether moving to a system of presumed consent is the best option for boosting donors.

Apparently the UK currently has one of the lowest organ donor rates in Europe.

Health secretary Nicola Sturgeon urged donors to tell relatives when they join the register.

See news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/edinburgh_and_east/7443583.stm
 
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Re:Medics mull organ donor options 4 Months ago Karma: 2  
I agree that the donor system is best. I find the term "presumed consent" doesn't sit well. It reminds me of the defence often put by solicitors representing rapists to be honest.

The register should operate more smoothly and I think relatives should not have the right to over rule someone's wishes after they are dead. If a person is registered and on a database then that should be it. But the whole idea of people dying and their organs being removed on a "presumed consent" basis reduces our value considerably and kind of suggests that we're just a collection of spare parts. I think therefore that a decision needs to be made formally by the owner of those parts so that their wishes are known for certain.
 
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I really see where you are coming from here Clare, ad to be honest I felt the same way until one evening I was involved in a discussion on this very subject. Of the 15 or so of us there, only 3 were recorded as donors. However, much more significantly, only 1 had a strong objection to the idea of being a donor. The rest were quite happy for their organs to be used but, by their own admission, were too lazy to do anything about it.

While I would not claim this to be a scientific random sample, I think that this is, generally, the case in this country. I also feel that it is unfair, both on the donor system and, perhaps more importantly, on the relatives who will have to make that decision on someone else's behalf at a very stressful and emotional time.

I'm not going to go into a lecture about the good that organ donation can do, that speaks for itself, but the potential benefit that could come from those friends of mine could be easily lost with the time delay involved.

The idea of presumed consent still does not sit 100% with me, but I do feel that it is a good thing, in that it would sweep up all the people who "did not get round to it". It does not remove any freedoms from anyone as they have the right at any time to register their objection.
 
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Re:Medics mull organ donor options 4 Months ago Karma: 2  
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I really see where you are coming from here Clare, ad to be honest I felt the same way until one evening I was involved in a discussion on this very subject. Of the 15 or so of us there, only 3 were recorded as donors. However, much more significantly, only 1 had a strong objection to the idea of being a donor. The rest were quite happy for their organs to be used but, by their own admission, were too lazy to do anything about it.

While I would not claim this to be a scientific random sample, I think that this is, generally, the case in this country. I also feel that it is unfair, both on the donor system and, perhaps more importantly, on the relatives who will have to make that decision on someone else's behalf at a very stressful and emotional time.

I'm not going to go into a lecture about the good that organ donation can do, that speaks for itself, but the potential benefit that could come from those friends of mine could be easily lost with the time delay involved.

The idea of presumed consent still does not sit 100% with me, but I do feel that it is a good thing, in that it would sweep up all the people who "did not get round to it". It does not remove any freedoms from anyone as they have the right at any time to register their objection.


Actually Martin it does remove freedom from people. Presumed consent is exactly that in that someone else is making a decision for them without asking.

There are many reasons why people don't get around to becoming a donor although I agree its lazy of us. There could be just as many for those who don't get around to registering that they don't want their bodies emptied without their consent when they die. I really don't think the state has the right to do that and I hope it doesn't happen. The scope for the new system to be manipulated is too great I think. The very idea makes me feel very uncomfortable. I would go so far as to say that if they introduce it many people will register as NON-donors. I know that sounds odd, but I think it will happen.

I think we must make people more aware of the good organ-donation can do and the lives it can save but I think we also must retain the present system whereby people register as donors. Removing the right of relatives to refuse after a person's death should however be done away with and I've never thought relatives should be able to do that when a person's own wishes are clear.

Think worst case scenario Martin. Lydia has told us of the experience parents had in the past when hospitals removed the organs of dead children without asking parents. Think of the "presumed consent" system in a situation like that. I'm sorry, it doesn't work for me. Imagine parents of a child approaching death being informed that under "presumed consent" their child was being taken to theatre in order to remove organs. Nope, it doesn't work for me. Ultimately we are individuals and we are not as I previously potential walking factories full of spare parts. The whole idea leaves me cold.

We need to wake up and get people registering as donors. I just think its really important that a person's wishes are absolutely clear.
 
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I didn't realise the refusal rate (on the part of relatives after a registered donor has died) was as high as 40%. When you think about it that's massive! Nicola Sturgeon is saying the "key" is for people to tell their relatives when they register. I think the real key is for the wishes of these people to be respected by their relatives and I think that is the first angle this should be viewed from. Imagine the difference it would make if those refusals weren't permitted, if a person's wishes couldn't be overturned by relatives after their death. Surely donors who register are essentially making a decision along the lines of making a will almost and so legally their wishes should be paramount and legally irrevocable?

I am more and more drawn to the idea of properly promoting organ donation Martin, really. Nothing is unclear then but is straightforward.

My previous post possibly included one scenario that won't arise but I'm not sure. I've realised the "presumed consent" proposal will almost certainly only include adults and not children, yes? Maybe someone could clarify.

I think tho that the scenarios I've referred to would still arise involving relatives in a "presumed consent" situation and that the distress there would be much greater than where relatives of a registered donor over-rule the deceased wishes. How bizarre would it be if we went from a situation whereby relatives of a registered donor were able to stop that process to a position where the relatives of somene whose wishes weren't known were unable to stop their organs being taken?

I know they are saying we can opt out but ultimately I can't get away from the fact that our bodies don't belong to the State and the whole "presumed consent" thing has a ring to it which disturbs me.

We have to change the way we persuade people to become donors and promote it everywhere. GPs could kick that off by asking every patient they see, dentists too, opticians: donor cards should be available everywhere. everywhere. We must go that route but first let's get rid of the clause whereby relatives can overturn a person's wishes. That would be a very good start given the high percentage of cases where that happens. I was thinking it would be maybe around 7-10 per cent, but 40% is a huge amount, its almost half. We need to address that.
 
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news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/4673388.stm

I will answer this post in two ways; I would like to outline the dangers of the system of presumed consent and the suggestions that have been made to the old executive and our new Health Minister Nicola sturgeon and our new Government by my organisation.

We worked hard to bring about the new Human Tissue Act (Scotland) and fought vigorously against some of the measures passed in this act.

Our Objections.

We believe it is a personal decision and a relative should not have a veto either way.

Medical staff can obtain legal authorisation from a child of twelve and over, which can be verbal, to organ donation for transplant and for post mortem. Without the knowledge or consent or presence of parents, the parent could go to the toilet and a child signed up. Remember this will be taken only from critically ill/terminal children; otherwise, it would probably not be useful. E U law dictates the person must have a full explanation of what happens to the body. Either way is unacceptable for a dying child of twelve without the support of the parents.

The verbal authorisation may be presumed if the staff member says so. No signature necessary, the staff member fills in a form to say that any person old or young has given verbal consent. That consent may consist of a nod, even from a dying person in pain, under the influence of pain relief, drink or drugs, or with no ability to communicate through language difficulties, which may include the lack of ability to speak English. This person of course may also be deaf and unable to speak. They may be unconscious for all we know. No proof needed. They may be Muslim.

For our organisation any collection of Doctors and Pathologists who would bring in such a terrible law when the promise was made that this law would protect the bodies of our loved ones, should never be trusted with the lives or bodies of any person in Scotland.

During the meetings of the heath committee, while I gave evidence, we were round the table with pathologists who objected to the ability to take verbal authorisation and the ability to take authorisation from a child of twelve and still this Bill was passed by Labour Government.


Presumed Consent

The suggestion is we would have an online register of objectors. We would also be offered a card to carry along the lines of the opt in card. ( Try finding a card for either system )

The lack of safety of this system is obvious when you realise that an aggrieved wife husband or mother - in -law can at this moment in time sign you up to donate your organs for transplant online if they have access to your e-mail account little information proves it is you filling in this authorisation. It is also possible for a doctor or any member of the medical staff to do this.

If the Royal College of Surgeons have their way, this will also happen online for authorisation for post mortem, for research purposes.

What would happen if a person did not have the intelligence to find out how to opt out, for any reason? The old who do not understand the internet. The people who cannot read or write. Who cannot speak English? Who have no permanent address? Who live alone and have no relatives to protect their body. Perhaps relatives live abroad and cannot reach the hospital before the person dies. The vast majority of residents of Scotland who rarely read a paper. (It is all too too depressing)

Children / over the age of twelve who live in care. A social worker has parental rights over this.

The person who slips out to the shops or goes on a night out and is killed and the card is left at home.

If a relative finds it later, will we have a succession of court cases, which will damage any good done by the positive publicity we worked so hard to get.

Life or Death.

Most medical staff within the NHS are normal people, honest and a level of integrity fit for purpose. We are though treated in the NHS by people, and within will have a normal level of dishonest people with no integrity. We also will have people who are completely mad or just plain wicked, people who will kill for money and will run a system where an organ can be bought for a reasonable price; unfortunately, to run a system like that donors will be killed. If we allow a doctor or nurse the ability to decide whether you or I or our relatives are helped/ waste NHS resources/are perhaps too fat to help/a smoker and should not be helped, or are to be used and our organs harvested it is a step too far.
Lives will be lost and particularly the lives of the homeless, alone, old, infirm of mind and body.
A nurse working in the head injury wards in Edinburgh who was not alone in having grave reservations about the systems used to decide if a person is brain dead contacted us.
When a person lies on that bed it is a doctor who will decide if they are worth saving or should be used to harvest organs. The right of life or death over you and your relatives.

OTHER OPTIONS.
Laziness is the main reason people do not donate, lack of trust is another, allowing access to the body. The relatives inability to allow the mutilation of a loved one.
However, time for some home truths, in the opt out debate in parliament we discovered that Scotland does not have the capability to do the transplants of the people currently on the waiting list. We have enough donors but not enough theatres room, staff or beds. Why, when the professionals and the Government including Nicola Sturgeon know this do, they want more donors.

Each person at some time fills in a form to give the people in their house the right to vote/ pay council tax
Most people will apply for car tax, passport, forms for benefits, housing benefits, pensions, etc
The sixteen year old would ask for a national health number
Many other options exist; crucially the person would not receive what they have applied for unless they fill out and return the form asking for their authorisation.
A computer could easily generate a form and an information pack with any of these forms.
On the form, the person would be asked to decide from three options.

1. I want to donate my organs for transplant, /or would allow a post mortem on my body after death/donate organs for research.
2. I would not want to donate my organs / have a post mortem.
3. I do not want to decide at this time.

The form could include a section which the next of kin could sign stating they are aware of this persons intentions

This would overcome the laziness and protect each persons right to choose for themselves.
 
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Re:Medics mull organ donor options 4 Months ago Karma: 2  
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I really see where you are coming from here Clare, ad to be honest I felt the same way until one evening I was involved in a discussion on this very subject. Of the 15 or so of us there, only 3 were recorded as donors. However, much more significantly, only 1 had a strong objection to the idea of being a donor. The rest were quite happy for their organs to be used but, by their own admission, were too lazy to do anything about it.

While I would not claim this to be a scientific random sample, I think that this is, generally, the case in this country. I also feel that it is unfair, both on the donor system and, perhaps more importantly, on the relatives who will have to make that decision on someone else's behalf at a very stressful and emotional time.

I'm not going to go into a lecture about the good that organ donation can do, that speaks for itself, but the potential benefit that could come from those friends of mine could be easily lost with the time delay involved.

The idea of presumed consent still does not sit 100% with me, but I do feel that it is a good thing, in that it would sweep up all the people who "did not get round to it". It does not remove any freedoms from anyone as they have the right at any time to register their objection.


Actually Martin it does remove freedom from people. Presumed consent is exactly that in that someone else is making a decision for them without asking.

There are many reasons why people don't get around to becoming a donor although I agree its lazy of us. There could be just as many for those who don't get around to registering that they don't want their bodies emptied without their consent when they die. I really don't think the state has the right to do that and I hope it doesn't happen. The scope for the new system to be manipulated is too great I think. The very idea makes me feel very uncomfortable. I would go so far as to say that if they introduce it many people will register as NON-donors. I know that sounds odd, but I think it will happen.

I think we must make people more aware of the good organ-donation can do and the lives it can save but I think we also must retain the present system whereby people register as donors. Removing the right of relatives to refuse after a person's death should however be done away with and I've never thought relatives should be able to do that when a person's own wishes are clear.

Think worst case scenario Martin. Lydia has told us of the experience parents had in the past when hospitals removed the organs of dead children without asking parents. Think of the "presumed consent" system in a situation like that. I'm sorry, it doesn't work for me. Imagine parents of a child approaching death being informed that under "presumed consent" their child was being taken to theatre in order to remove organs. Nope, it doesn't work for me. Ultimately we are individuals and we are not as I previously potential walking factories full of spare parts. The whole idea leaves me cold.

We need to wake up and get people registering as donors. I just think its really important that a person's wishes are absolutely clear.


That is not quite how presumed consent works, the child would not have their organs removed if they have opted out.
You are very right about the protest votes and we will lead that campaign as it will be a way of showing that the country does not want the opt out system.

It would only be a last resort as we have no wish to damage the list which is so vital to lives.

Technically the law states that a relative cannot stop organ donation if the person is on the register. Practically doctors do not want the bad publicity if a relative objects.
 
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Re:Medics mull organ donor options 4 Months ago Karma: 2  
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I didn't realise the refusal rate (on the part of relatives after a registered donor has died) was as high as 40%. When you think about it that's massive! Nicola Sturgeon is saying the "key" is for people to tell their relatives when they register. I think the real key is for the wishes of these people to be respected by their relatives and I think that is the first angle this should be viewed from. Imagine the difference it would make if those refusals weren't permitted, if a person's wishes couldn't be overturned by relatives after their death. Surely donors who register are essentially making a decision along the lines of making a will almost and so legally their wishes should be paramount and legally irrevocable?

I am more and more drawn to the idea of properly promoting organ donation Martin, really. Nothing is unclear then but is straightforward.

My previous post possibly included one scenario that won't arise but I'm not sure. I've realised the "presumed consent" proposal will almost certainly only include adults and not children, yes? Maybe someone could clarify.

I think tho that the scenarios I've referred to would still arise involving relatives in a "presumed consent" situation and that the distress there would be much greater than where relatives of a registered donor over-rule the deceased wishes. How bizarre would it be if we went from a situation whereby relatives of a registered donor were able to stop that process to a position where the relatives of somene whose wishes weren't known were unable to stop their organs being taken?

I know they are saying we can opt out but ultimately I can't get away from the fact that our bodies don't belong to the State and the whole "presumed consent" thing has a ring to it which disturbs me.

We have to change the way we persuade people to become donors and promote it everywhere. GPs could kick that off by asking every patient they see, dentists too, opticians: donor cards should be available everywhere. everywhere. We must go that route but first let's get rid of the clause whereby relatives can overturn a person's wishes. That would be a very good start given the high percentage of cases where that happens. I was thinking it would be maybe around 7-10 per cent, but 40% is a huge amount, its almost half. We need to address that.


Claire we fought for the right of the personal decision and it is something that I truly believe in. Realistically though when you are in the situation where it is your loved one dead or rather someone is telling you they cannot be saved. It is usually the result of two main scenarios. It may all be a terrible shock and the person has had a heart attack or knocked down, No time to say goodbye and along comes this person who is asking that they be put onto a machine which will keep organs working while they are removed, before your loved one is in your eyes properly dead. it is a leap of faith in the person who is telling you that your loved one is dead but not really dead. Your brain does not work as it normally would, your only feeling is to protect the body as this is all you have left of this much loved person. Perhaps best explained by the fact that some people want to put warm things onto their loved ones when they are buried it is completely illogical but that is grief and how it effects some people. If your relative has gone through a long illness and you have feelings along the lines of what if they could be saved or just not properly dead. You may feel they have had enough now just leave them in peace to die in dignity. You may also feel a terrible horror at the thought that a scalpel is to open the body of this person before you have a chance to get used to the idea of the death of this much loved person.
 
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A computer could easily generate a form and an information pack with any of these forms. On the form, the person would be asked to decide from three options.

1. I want to donate my organs for transplant, /or would allow a post mortem on my body after death/donate organs for research.
2. I would not want to donate my organs / have a post mortem.
3. I do not want to decide at this time.


I worked in pathology labs for decades and I can assure you that no patient would ever be asked if they want a post mortem examination of their corpse. Relatives might be asked after the death but only if the case was interesting enough to bother about. Even then sometimes the patient's own medic wasn't too keen because doctors generally prefer to bury their mistakes. After the organ retention fiasco very few relatives now give permission. Fiscal autopsies are now by far the most common post mortem examination and the relatives have no say at all in the matter. In my youth labs kept all sorts of bits from bodies and nobody bothered about it. It turned a bit nasty though when the relatives of a young woman tourist who died in a road accident discovered that her brain was missing when the corpse was shipped back to her home country.
 
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LYDIA REID wrote:
A computer could easily generate a form and an information pack with any of these forms. On the form, the person would be asked to decide from three options.

1. I want to donate my organs for transplant, /or would allow a post mortem on my body after death/donate organs for research.
2. I would not want to donate my organs / have a post mortem.
3. I do not want to decide at this time.


I worked in pathology labs for decades and I can assure you that no patient would ever be asked if they want a post mortem examination of their corpse. Relatives might be asked after the death but only if the case was interesting enough to bother about. Even then sometimes the patient's own medic wasn't too keen because doctors generally prefer to bury their mistakes. After the organ retention fiasco very few relatives now give permission. Fiscal autopsies are now by far the most common post mortem examination and the relatives have no say at all in the matter. In my youth labs kept all sorts of bits from bodies and nobody bothered about it. It turned a bit nasty though when the relatives of a young woman tourist who died in a road accident discovered that her brain was missing when the corpse was shipped back to her home country.


Levenax

You must be on the wrong end of the discussion.

My son was dying of cancer and he and his wife were asked. This is common to try to overcome the objection of relatives.

When my youngest son died many years ago the hospital asked if they could do a post mortem and I refused, they simply used the procurator fiscal to do the post mortem, this post-mortem proved without a doubt that medical negligence had killed my son and the information was hidden for many years.

I have young mums in my organisation who were asked to hold their babies until they died and were asked to agree to a post mortem as they held their babies.
I have several young mums who were asked minutes after delivering their dead babies to sign that form not just by nurses and doctors but also in one case the minister and in another the priest. The worst-case scenario a young mum still holding her dead baby was asked 12 times by doctors, nurses, and the priest. At one point, twelve people were in that room. They asked her partner to persuade her but they would not allow him to see his son as they were not married and needed her permission.

Parents in neo-natal units are asked before the baby is dead.

Many parents discovered that the forms had been forged. A member of staff had signed them thinking that the process of post-mortem would never be discovered, as information was so protected in the past.

The Procurators Fiscal know nothing about these post mortems until after the deed is done, it is physicians and Pathologists who want to do these post mortems, not only because they may be interesting cases but also because of training. The last information I was given Pathologists are paid Ģ200 per procedure. It may be more now.

We have no objections to any of these procedures being carried out. Doctors must learn, surgeons must learn, if any of our little ones needed an operation I would want a surgeon that had been trained on a dead body not a live one. None of these issues takes away the right of a person as they hold their dead child to say no. With adults, it is different; an adult should make this decision for himself or herself. It is their body, which, will be used. My body will go to science if it is not usable for transplant I am the greatest supporter of research and learning. The issue is that many do not want to give their body for anything and that is the mindset that we must change. The arrogance of Doctors Nurses and Laboratory technical staff who believe they have the right over our bodies is another mindset, which must change.

I see a huge problem with the fact that when working in this area many doctors’ nurses’ pathologists and other staff are immune to the grief felt by relatives. As they are so involved in life saving work, it is possibly understandable but this must change, they cannot be allowed to believe that they own our bodies or us.
 
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I didn't realise the refusal rate (on the part of relatives after a registered donor has died) was as high as 40%. When you think about it that's massive! Nicola Sturgeon is saying the "key" is for people to tell their relatives when they register. I think the real key is for the wishes of these people to be respected by their relatives and I think that is the first angle this should be viewed from. Imagine the difference it would make if those refusals weren't permitted, if a person's wishes couldn't be overturned by relatives after their death. Surely donors who register are essentially making a decision along the lines of making a will almost and so legally their wishes should be paramount and legally irrevocable?

I am more and more drawn to the idea of properly promoting organ donation Martin, really. Nothing is unclear then but is straightforward.

My previous post possibly included one scenario that won't arise but I'm not sure. I've realised the "presumed consent" proposal will almost certainly only include adults and not children, yes? Maybe someone could clarify.

I think tho that the scenarios I've referred to would still arise involving relatives in a "presumed consent" situation and that the distress there would be much greater than where relatives of a registered donor over-rule the deceased wishes. How bizarre would it be if we went from a situation whereby relatives of a registered donor were able to stop that process to a position where the relatives of somene whose wishes weren't known were unable to stop their organs being taken?

I know they are saying we can opt out but ultimately I can't get away from the fact that our bodies don't belong to the State and the whole "presumed consent" thing has a ring to it which disturbs me.

We have to change the way we persuade people to become donors and promote it everywhere. GPs could kick that off by asking every patient they see, dentists too, opticians: donor cards should be available everywhere. everywhere. We must go that route but first let's get rid of the clause whereby relatives can overturn a person's wishes. That would be a very good start given the high percentage of cases where that happens. I was thinking it would be maybe around 7-10 per cent, but 40% is a huge amount, its almost half. We need to address that.


Claire we fought for the right of the personal decision and it is something that I truly believe in. Realistically though when you are in the situation where it is your loved one dead or rather someone is telling you they cannot be saved. It is usually the result of two main scenarios. It may all be a terrible shock and the person has had a heart attack or knocked down, No time to say goodbye and along comes this person who is asking that they be put onto a machine which will keep organs working while they are removed, before your loved one is in your eyes properly dead. it is a leap of faith in the person who is telling you that your loved one is dead but not really dead. Your brain does not work as it normally would, your only feeling is to protect the body as this is all you have left of this much loved person. Perhaps best explained by the fact that some people want to put warm things onto their loved ones when they are buried it is completely illogical but that is grief and how it effects some people. If your relative has gone through a long illness and you have feelings along the lines of what if they could be saved or just not properly dead. You may feel they have had enough now just leave them in peace to die in dignity. You may also feel a terrible horror at the thought that a scalpel is to open the body of this person before you have a chance to get used to the idea of the death of this much loved person.


Lydia, the point I'm making is that if a person makes a decision about the matter for themselves and registers as a donor their family should simply not be allowed to overturn that decision. Families should not be asked for their approval, the person has already made the decision. Grief doesn't come into the matter, the decision has been made already, and surely they should wish to honour that person's wishes? The issues surrounding this problem would best be dealt with if as I have suggested the registration process includes that person's decision being final and barring relatives from changing it at a later date.
 
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You must be on the wrong end of the discussion.

My son was dying of cancer and he and his wife were asked. This is common to try to overcome the objection of relatives.

When my youngest son died many years ago the hospital asked if they could do a post mortem and I refused, they simply used the procurator fiscal to do the post mortem, this post-mortem proved without a doubt that medical negligence had killed my son and the information was hidden for many years.

I have young mums in my organisation who were asked to hold their babies until they died and were asked to agree to a post mortem as they held their babies.
I have several young mums who were asked minutes after delivering their dead babies to sign that form not just by nurses and doctors but also in one case the minister and in another the priest. The worst-case scenario a young mum still holding her dead baby was asked 12 times by doctors, nurses, and the priest. At one point, twelve people were in that room. They asked her partner to persuade her but they would not allow him to see his son as they were not married and needed her permission.

Parents in neo-natal units are asked before the baby is dead.

Many parents discovered that the forms had been forged. A member of staff had signed them thinking that the process of post-mortem would never be discovered, as information was so protected in the past.

The Procurators Fiscal know nothing about these post mortems until after the deed is done, it is physicians and Pathologists who want to do these post mortems, not only because they may be interesting cases but also because of training. The last information I was given Pathologists are paid Ģ200 per procedure. It may be more now.

We have no objections to any of these procedures being carried out. Doctors must learn, surgeons must learn, if any of our little ones needed an operation I would want a surgeon that had been trained on a dead body not a live one. None of these issues takes away the right of a person as they hold their dead child to say no. With adults, it is different; an adult should make this decision for himself or herself. It is their body, which, will be used. My body will go to science if it is not usable for transplant I am the greatest supporter of research and learning. The issue is that many do not want to give their body for anything and that is the mindset that we must change. The arrogance of Doctors Nurses and Laboratory technical staff who believe they have the right over our bodies is another mindset, which must change.

I see a huge problem with the fact that when working in this area many doctors’ nurses’ pathologists and other staff are immune to the grief felt by relatives. As they are so involved in life saving work, it is possibly understandable but this must change, they cannot be allowed to believe that they own our bodies or us.


I'm very sorry to learn that you've had the experiences you describe. You must have encountered some very unfeeling medics for such things to have happened. The medical profession harbours just as many chancers, crooks and incompetents as any other it's just that they're better than most at covering it up or passing the buck.
Pathologists are only paid extra for autopsies ordered by the Procurator Fiscal and the last I heard it was around Ģ240. In a hospitals in big cities with lots of murders and neglected old folk being found dead or if they've got a busy casualty department the pathologists can make many ĢK on top of their Ģ100K salaries. A nice little earner when you think they are doing it in NHS time using NHS facilities and support staff. The last place I worked in, which wasn't all that big, did about twenty a month so it was around Ģ60K a year between two medics. I almost said nice work but if you've ever been in the room when they're cutting up a corpse that's been mouldering in a centrally heated flat for a month you would know it's mingin.
 
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